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From Hustle to Alignment: How I Learned to Listen to My Intuition in Business

Nov 25, 2024

 If you had met me a few years ago, you would have seen someone who was all about the hustle. I mean, all about it. I was the definition of “Team No Sleep”—the one who always had to do more, create more, and prove more. If I wasn’t working, I felt like I was failing. There was no in-between.

My days started at 4:45 AM, with a giant to-do list and my phone buzzing before I even got out of bed. I was constantly in “go mode,” trying to fit more into every hour of the day, whether it was creating content, coaching clients, running a household, or juggling homeschooling. I told myself that this was what it took to be successful. But the truth is, I was running on fumes.

Here’s the real kicker: I wasn’t just hustling for success—I was hustling to prove something. To myself, to the people who doubted me, and to anyone who ever made me feel like I wasn’t good enough. I had this deep-seated fear of failure, a fear that had its roots in old stories of unworthiness. I thought that if I just worked a little harder, created a little more, and pushed myself a little further, I’d finally prove that I was capable and worthy.

But here’s the hard truth I had to face: you can’t create lasting success from a place of lack.

The Hustle Mentality: Where It All Started

Let’s rewind to the early days of my coaching career. I’d get a burst of inspiration and launch into a full-on sprint—working late nights, posting daily on social media, filling my calendar with back-to-back client calls, and trying to be everywhere at once. I was wearing all the hats and chasing every opportunity.

At the time, it felt like the right thing to do. After all, we’re taught that hard work equals success, right? We’re told to “push through,” “grind harder,” and “outwork the competition.” So, that’s exactly what I did. And yes, it brought results… for a while. But at what cost?

I was constantly exhausted, both physically and emotionally. I remember sitting at my desk one night, staring at my laptop, and feeling like I was about to break. My mind was racing, my body was drained, and I was overwhelmed by the nagging feeling that I still wasn’t doing enough. I was getting results, but it never felt like enough because I wasn’t coming from a place of joy, inspiration, or abundance. I was coming from a place of scarcity and fear.

Deep down, I knew that the hustle wasn’t sustainable. But it’s hard to let go of something that you think is keeping you safe. For me, the hustle was a coping mechanism, a way to control the outcome and protect myself from the fear of failure.

When Hustle Comes from a Place of Lack

I’ve come to realize that the hustle mentality often comes from a place of lack—of trying to fill a void or prove something that’s rooted in our wounds. In my case, it was rooted in old stories of not feeling smart enough or capable enough, and these beliefs pushed me to constantly overcompensate.

Here’s the thing: when you operate from a place of lack, you’re essentially telling the universe, “I don’t believe there’s enough for me, so I have to fight for every scrap.” You may not be saying it out loud, but your energy speaks volumes. And when your energy is one of scarcity, that’s exactly what you attract—more scarcity.

Think about it. Have you ever had one of those days where everything feels like a struggle? You try to make progress, but things keep going wrong. It’s like the universe is saying, “If you’re going to hustle from a place of fear and lack, I’m going to reflect that right back at you.”

This was my reality for years. I was trying to manifest abundance while operating from a mindset that screamed, “I don’t have enough.” It was a vicious cycle, and it was draining me.

The Wake-Up Call: A Moment of Clarity

The real wake-up call came during a moment of absolute burnout. I remember sitting at my desk, surrounded by sticky notes and half-empty coffee cups, feeling completely defeated. I had just finished back-to-back client calls, my inbox was overflowing, and I felt like I was constantly racing against the clock. And yet, I wasn’t happy. I wasn’t fulfilled. I was exhausted.

I had to ask myself some tough questions: Why am I doing this? Who am I trying to prove something to? The answers weren’t easy to face, but they were necessary. I realized that I was hustling from a place of fear—fear of failure, fear of not being good enough, fear of losing everything I had worked so hard for. And that fear was holding me back, not propelling me forward.

It became clear that I needed a new approach—one that was rooted in alignment, not scarcity. I needed to start trusting my intuition, letting go of control, and embracing a mindset of abundance. It was a scary shift, but I knew it was the only way forward.

The Shift to Alignment: Learning to Let Go

Shifting from hustle to alignment wasn’t an overnight transformation. It was more of a series of small steps, each one bringing me closer to a place of balance, clarity, and trust in myself. Letting go of the hustle wasn’t just about changing how I worked; it was about changing how I thought.

At first, letting go felt terrifying. I was so used to pushing myself that the idea of slowing down felt like giving up. But I knew I had to make a choice: keep running on empty or start creating from a place of joy and inspiration. I chose the latter.

I started by simplifying my schedule and being more intentional with my time. I set clear boundaries, not just with others, but with myself. I gave myself permission to rest, to say no, and to focus on what truly mattered. And here’s the funny thing: the more I slowed down, the more I started to attract opportunities that felt aligned and fulfilling.

What Alignment Really Looks Like in Business

So, what does working from a place of alignment really mean? It’s not about stopping the hard work; it’s about working in a way that feels good, intentional, and true to who you are. Here’s how this shift showed up in my business:

1. Embracing Rest as a Necessity, Not a Reward

I used to think rest was something you earned after a long day of grinding. But I’ve learned that rest is actually the foundation for creativity, clarity, and intuition. Now, I prioritize rest as part of my routine, not as a reward. It’s essential for staying aligned and grounded in my work.

2. Trusting My Intuition

I used to make decisions based on what seemed logical or what other people told me was “right.” Now, I make decisions based on what feels right. I’ve learned that my intuition often knows the way before my mind can catch up. If something feels off, I don’t force it; I wait for clarity to come. This approach has led to more aligned clients, projects, and collaborations.

3. Moving from “Should” to “Want”

I stopped making decisions based on what I thought I “should” be doing and started focusing on what I truly wanted to create. I stopped chasing trends and started following my own vision. This shift has made my work feel more meaningful and authentic.

4. Shifting from Scarcity to Abundance

This was a big one. I had to reprogram my mindset to see success as something that was available to me—not something I had to chase down. I started affirming abundance, trusting that there was more than enough to go around. This shift in energy has changed everything, from the way I approach clients to the way I set goals.

Why Intuition Matters for Your Business (and Your Life)

Here’s the thing: when you build your business from a place of alignment, everything starts to flow. You’re no longer forcing things, and you’re not operating from a place of lack. Instead, you’re moving in sync with your intuition, allowing it to guide you toward what’s truly meant for you.

This doesn’t mean that challenges won’t come up—they will. But when you’re aligned, you’re better equipped to handle them. You’re not reacting from fear or scarcity; you’re responding from a place of trust, clarity, and abundance.

Intuition isn’t just a nice-to-have; it’s a must-have. It’s the compass that points you in the direction of your highest potential, both in business and in life. When you learn to listen to it, you’ll find that success feels less like a grind and more like a natural expression of who you are.

If You’re Stuck in the Hustle, Here’s What You Need to Know

If you’re caught in the hustle mentality—constantly feeling like you have to do more to be worthy or prove yourself—know this: You are enough, exactly as you are.

Hustling to prove your worth is like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in it. No matter how much you pour in, it will never feel full. But when you start to shift your focus inward, healing the beliefs that have been driving the hustle, you can start to create from a place of abundance.

Here’s how to start:

  • Reflect on why you’re hustling. Is it coming from a place of inspiration, or are you trying to prove something?
  • Allow yourself to rest. Rest is productive. It’s where creativity and clarity thrive.
  • Trust your intuition. It’s your most powerful guide in both life and business.
  • Embrace abundance as a mindset. Start affirming that there’s more than enough to go around, and watch how your energy shifts.

Final Thoughts: Abundance Over Hustle

Making the shift from hustle to alignment has been one of the most transformative parts of my journey. It’s about learning to trust yourself, listen to your intuition, and create from a place of wholeness rather than lack.

If you’re ready to let go of the grind and step into true alignment, know this: you don’t have to hustle to be worthy. You already are. Your success isn’t about how hard you push—it’s about how deeply you trust yourself and your vision.

With love and abundance,
Kayla

 

 

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